Sabtu, 13 November 2010

The power of No!

Readers, I want to share with you about the power of sayingNOT in our lives. Are we not taught to moresay YES to others and not reject other people, sincewe are still small.
So, is there any positive side of said NO in our lives.Sure! And I give a case in point. I remember one timedecided to take the basic science of psychology as science baseI, in college. My relatives say "Do not deh. Whatcan be expected from the science of psychology. " I say NOto them. And I am very happy because it can stand onmy decision.
It turned out to be the fundamental psychology that is good for mein writing, provide training and become a speaker.Likewise, when starting a career as a trainer. I get out ofcompany and leave such a promising career.
As a freelance trainer, various companies and executivessearch to find me with a tempting variety of packages. But,I am happy to say NO to their offer so I canfocus to realize my dream, in a relatively young age.
Readers, it is correct since childhood we are taught to sayYES, must not disappoint other people, make others happyto agree or give-YA's lawyer told them. However,the edges are a lot of the ideals and dreams that eventually sacrificedbecause we are not able to say NO. Believe me, to be successfulsometimes we have to learn to say NO in place.
Negative attitude
First, say NO to those who act negatively towardideas and your dreams. I am often reminded that 'opinions areThe most expensive commodity. " When you give your idea, usuallyYou must be prepared to receive many comments, including any commentsnegative.
At that time, look carefully and see the credibility of people whosaid. If necessary, do not let them steal your dreamsNOT just because a word they say.
The author of Chicken Soup for the Soul contains a collection of articlesfamous inspiration had practically NO by the publisher. However,because they would not be affected until the end of the booknow a book that touched so many people. So, ifthere are people who mean a negative and say no to the dreamyou believe, say, THANK YOU and keep fightingfor your dreams.
Second, say NO to the activities that disrupt youractivities that are productive and useful. It is very common, temptationto rest and have fun wasting time by notproductive. Sometimes there is also a temptation to chit-chat, the temptation tochatting is not productive or popular eventsexcess's, which eventually spent much of your timeuseful.
Sometimes, for your life become more fruitful, then you mustdare to say NO to those who want to steal your time.Always remember, 'if you do not start learning to control timeYou then someone else who started going to control your time '.Take control of your own time.
Third, say NO to the offers that seemseductive but confuse you from your goals. Indeed,enemy of something good is something even better.
Sometimes, there are things that seem useful and beneficial,but if ki-ta watch carefully, then it is actuallynot bring us closer to our ideals.
I salute my colleagues who devoted her life toserve the spiritual life of students. I know that he wasmay need funding for family life.
But while there are invitations to speak in another city. Apparently hepolitely refused saying, "Yes I do needfunds but I've decided to spend this week forprovide counseling to students assisting me. ForcedI say NO because I already have a commitment of time inthis week. "
Fourth, say NO to the various temptations that preciselydrop you from the side of your dignity and morals. It is said thatoften PROPERTY, SEE and WOMEN much into temptationdropped. Acts that have occurred since the first human creation.
But often this temptation would be nice if from the beginning we did notaccept it. Suppose that once a bid to get a particular projectbut should be by providing a woman or a bribe.
Unfortunately once we get used to the process of working like this, thenWe also will be a continuity of doing business that wayit. In this situation, it will be difficult for usto teach positive values and good to subordinatesas well as our children, if we do not have integrity.
aya still remember how shocked I was when an activistformerly known as honest ultimately prove corruption and go to jail.It turned out that everything starts from the 'accept' and too tolerantwith small things. The inability to say NO endtrick them into prison.
Fifth, say NO to people who say NO toYou. In life we must sometimes persistent. This is the pointfrom courage to say NO this.
I remember the funny story about a director whosaid that he had rejected five times a salesapply through the secretary to be sales in its place.
The sales of this with a smile said simply, "I am a fivetimes rejected it! ". But, ultimately it was he who received asales. The reader, sometimes we must dare to say NO topeople who say NO to us.
Source: The Power of No! by Anthony Dio Martin, Director of HRExcellency
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